I think I'm right in this argument with my partner. They just don't get it.
I hear you — and I believe you feel strongly about this. But can I ask you something honestly? What would it mean if you were only partially right? Sometimes the person who's "winning" is the one doing the most damage.
...I hadn't thought about it that way.
That's the most important thing you've said. Sit with that for a moment. What does it open up?